https://anchor.fm/s/f5aa3ad4/podcast/play/120954371/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-5-3%2F2b8cb818-860e-3ca1-1432-cb6af823aafb.mp3 – Is it ever okay to try to hook someone up and keep it a secret?